Three Generations in
a Court of Domestic Relations
Mrs. Abrahams:
Come
on, Sadie, come on, Rosie, come on.
What
you want I should do now?
[unintelligible] What you
want I do? I always tell the
truth, always. Good morning,
Judge. Good morning.
Eh? My name? My name is Anna Abrahams. Anna Abrahams.
I'm seventy-nine years old; seventy-nine. Why, wait till next week, I'm eighty, eighty years old, but
now I'm seventy-nine years old.
I
live at 164 Orchard Street, New York City; 164, that's right, Orchard
Street. For twenty-five years I
live there; that's my home—twenty-five years.
I
come here this morning, Judge, please, to ask you to tell my granddaughter she
got to stay home, and work.
Oh,
she wants to marry. She wants to
marry and go to the West and leave her mother and me to starvation. I'm an old woman; I'm eighty years old;
you couldn't expect me to go work.
And my daughter, she's got heart trouble; she couldn't work. No, she's too sick; she couldn't work,
and . . . and we couldn't live without Rosie. She keep us now for . . . for two years, and now she want to
go away and get married. We got a
nice little home. Why she want to
go 'way? She's too young to get
married.
Ah,
she got no heart. She go 'way to
the West and she leave us in the street and starve, and she don't care. She's a bad girl. She need to be told by the judge; she
got to mind me and her mother. We
give her education; now she must keep us.
Eh? Oh.
Well,
she's a bad girl, Judge, because she run around crazy, with all those wild
girls and boys. She think only
have a good time. She waste her
time, she waste her strength, she waste her money, she buy all those silly things . . . Oh, and she buy
silly things to go to the movies every day, and she go dance every night. She waste her strength, she waste
everything, and she run around . . .
Eh? Oh.
Oh,
that young man is no good. That's
why I don't want she should get married, because that young man is no
good. Oh, he don't work; how he
keep a wife? He don't work, uh,
and he drinks. Make a very bad
husband.
If
she wait she get a better man. I'm
an old woman; I find her a good husband.
Ah, when I go out there see a young man make her a good husband, I bring
him to the house; we all be happy together.
Eh? She don't . . .
He
don't listen to what I say.
It's
the truth, what I tell you, Judge.
I'm an old woman; I know what's right. Oh, she's too young to get married. She don't understand nothing. We got a nice little home. She should stay by us.
[unintelligible]
nobody to listen to what I say.
They
don't pay no attention to me.
Mrs. Greenman:
Good
morning, your Honor.
My
name? My name is Sadie
Greenman. Sadie Greenman. Yes, sir.
I'm
forty-seven years old. I'm
twenty-five years married. I have
three children. Two sons and one
daughter. Yes, sir.
Well,
one son, he has got tuberculosis.
Yes, sir. And he couldn't
work; he's in the sanitarium. Yes,
sir. And my other son, he ran
away. I don't know where he is; he
ran away. He doesn't write, and I
don't know where he is.
Yes,
sir, my daughter Rosie supports me and my mother. For two years now she has kept us. Yes, sir.
My
husband? Oh, he's dead. Oh, my husband is dead, now, fourteen
years—dead.
Yes,
sir.
Me? Work? Oh, yes, sir, I did work. I worked for twelve years, in a box factory, but now I
couldn't work no more. Oh, I've
got very bad heart trouble. Yes,
sir, I am very weak from my heart, and my arm is paralyzed. I couldn't work no more.
Yes,
sir, I came here this morning, please, Judge, to ask you to tell my girl,
please, to stay home. Well, she
wants to marry. Yes, sir, she
wants to marry and go to the West, and then my mother and I, we would have to
go to a home for old people.
Well,
I don't want she should leave us.
We have a nice little home.
I did all I could for my children.
I sent Rosie to a business college when she finished public school, so
she should have a profession.
She
has a wonderful job, she's gets a nice salary, and she likes her work; she's
doing so well. But now she only
wants to go.
Oh,
no, sir, I have no money saved.
No, sir, we couldn't live without Rosie.
Well,
I don't like this young man. No,
sir, I don't like him. Well, he
don't work; he don't seem to try to
work. He has no job. And he drinks. Yes, sir, he drinks. I'm afraid he would make a very bad
husband.
Well,
I know it's hard for Rosie, but I think it's worse if she marries this
fellow. Yes, sir, that's right;
you should speak to her, but please, Judge, tell my girl she should wait
only. She's so young! She don't understand what is life. And she owes me something after all I
have done for her. Thank you.
Rosie Greenman:
Good
morning, your Honor, good morning.
My name? Rosie. Rosie . . . Oh, I beg your pardon. My name is Rose Elizabeth
Greenman. I always forget because
everybody calls me Rosie.
Generally when anyone asks
me my name all I say is ``Rosie.''
Yes, sir, everybody calls me Rosie. I'm nineteen years old, but I'm going to be twenty next
week. Yes, sir, I . . . I'm going
to be twenty the very same day
that my grandmother is going to be eighty I am going to be twenty. Yes, sir, seems funny. We always celebrate together. My grandmother is exactly sixty years
older than I am, and we always have a party every year. Yes, sir.
We
do, we live together—yes, sir, the three of us—we live together at
164 Orchard Street, New York City.
Yes, sir, it's a very nice little flat. I do, I support them.
For two years now, I have kept them. Yes, sir.
I
am a stenographer. I have, I got a
very good job. Yes, sir, I've been
very lucky. Yes, I do, I get a
very nice salary. Yes, sir, my
boss is very nice. Oh, I love my
work. Yes, sir, I . . . I
certainly do; I enjoy it. I think
it is very interesting work.
Pardon
me? Happy? You mean, ``happy home''? Oh, yes, sure, I'm always happy. Yes, sir, indeed, we get along fine. Oh, I am; I am devoted to my
mother. Yes, sir, and my . . .
yes, my grandmother, too. Ah, we
got a lot of fun. Yes, sir, we get
along fine together.
Pardon
me? Oh . . . yes, sir, I do. That's true too. Yes, sir. I do, I want to go 'way from here and get married. And you see, I want that my mother and
my grandmother should go to this home for old people, and they do not care to
go. Well, you see, I took a lot of
trouble. My young man has got a
wonderful chance to go to the West, and of course I got to go with him. And so I want that my mother and my
grandmother should go to this home.
And . . . I was looking for a nice place, and I didn't like a lot of the
places I seen I didn't like. But
then I was very lucky; I found this place, and it . . . really, it's
beautiful. And I think they'll
enjoy it when they get used to it.
Well, it's not so very far away.
Of course, my grandmother, she don't want to go anywhere, only Orchard
Street. She never lived anywhere
but Orchard Street, and she don't like the idea of going away, but you can get
up there in about forty minutes.
It don't seem so far. And
you can go three ways: you can go
on the sub, on the el, on the bus.
And when you get up there it's beautiful because the house has got four
sides to it. Yes, sir, you know,
sun seems to come in all round.
And it's got a little grass in front, and it's got a couple of trees. And the room they're going to give my
mother and my grandmother, the window looks right straight into a tree. Yes, sir, you can see the sky through
the branches. Oh, it's pretty, I
imagine like it is in the country.
And it's quiet up there, you know.
The house is just beautiful.
Well,
it's beautifully decorated, you know.
Yes, sir, they have got very pretty cretonne drapes, and they got
cretonne sofas, cretonne chairs, rattan chairs, and stuffed chairs, and they
got a lot of cushions in the chairs, and they got rugs on the floor, and they
got a lot of magazines and books laying around, you know; it's homelike. And they've got a piano, and they got a
radio, and they got a Victor and a lot of records. Uh, somebody give 'em a lot of records, and . . .
How,
many old ladies? There's about
thirty. Oh, they seem to be very
contented. Well, they was sittin'
around, you know, the way old ladies do, and they was talkin', knittin',
crochetin'; one of them was singin'—singin' at the piano. Yes, sir.
And
I think my mother will enjoy it because my mother, she likes beautiful things
the way I do, and the house has got a lot of pictures on the walls, and I was .
. . Pardon me? What kind of
pictures? Oh, they got a big
variety. Somebody give 'em a gift
of pictures, and they hung 'em all over the house, and it's very interesting
when every room you go in there's beautiful pictures. You want me to tell you? About the pictures?
Oh, yes, sir, if you would be interested I would be pleased.
Well,
I was lookin' at 'em, and the lady who showed me around, she was telling me
about them, and unh, and unh, they're very wonderful. In the front hall when you go in, the first thing you see is
Niagara Falls, and really you'd think it was there. The water appears to be comin' down from the ceiling to the
floor, and it's just very realistic, you know; the falls is all around the
hall.
And
then in the dining room they have got a picture of George Washington, and he is
in a boat. Well, he's goin'
somewhere with a lot of fellows pullin' on the oars, and there's ice in the
water, and he's standin' up, the General, with a three-cornered hat, and he . .
. Pardon me? Where was he
goin'? Ah, I guess you got me
there, Judge. I don't know where
he was goin'. Crossing the Delaware
River? Goin' over to the Battle of
Trenton? Oh, thank you. I'm glad you asked me; now I will
remember. And did he win the
battle? Oh good! He looked so worried!
And
then, in the sittin' room they have got a picture of a cathedral, and that is
in France, and the . . . I thought it seemed kind of funny: the two spires is different, and . . .
one is very fancy, and one is very plain.
And the lady was tellin' me that it is one of the most famous cathedrals
in the world. And she says the
walls is mostly glass. And it was
built nearly a thousand years ago and never fell down yet. No, she says it's wonderful. She says when you go inside and you
look through them windows that it seems you was lookin' through jewels. Yes, sir, I'd like to go over
there. It's all carved, you know,
by hand, out of stone, the saints and angels walkin' all over the doors, and .
. . it's beautiful work.
And
then in another room they got a picture of a garden, and that's in
England. It's all in color. Oh, it's so beautiful! It's just a mass of flowers on the
sides of a grass path goin' down the middle. And there's a little house on the hill with some sheep, and
it's awfully pretty, I guess, over there.
Am I fond of flowers? Oh, I
am! Yes, sir, I often go uptown to
see 'em in the florists' shops, but all those flowers, they grows under glass,
you know, in them glass houses, and I guess in England the flowers all grows
outdoors. No, sir, I was never in
the country. I was down to Coney
Island, but you don't see no flowers goin' down there.
Well,
you see, Judge, I can't give him up.
I got to go. Because
he has a wonderful job out there.
Well, my grandmother didn't mention it because she don't want that I
should go, and my mother don't seem to think it's a very good plan, but I think
it's a wonderful opportunity. Yes,
sir, I'll tell you about it.
Well,
you see, my young man, he has got an uncle, and he is not personally acquainted
with the uncle, but he's got a beautiful letter from him. Well, when he heard we was going to get
married, you see, he wrote him a letter, and he says he'd like to have him come
out there and bring me and make our home with him. He's got a ranch.
I guess it's like a big farm.
'Way out in the West. I
don't know just where it is, but it's all wrote out in the letter. Yes, sir, it's very very far. He says he is going to send us the
money for the ticket, and then all we got to do is to go to the Grand Central
Station, buy the ticket, get on the train, and go. Oh, you go for two days and two nights, steady goin', and
then you get somewhere, but that ain't it. No, sir, but you get out, and you go to another train,
another part of the city, and you get in another train, and you go for two more
days and two more nights.
Altogether it's four days, four nights, steady goin'. Yes, sir, but in the end you get
there. Oh, he says it's beautiful,
only he says when you get out, there's nothing to see, only just land and
sky. He says you can see very very
far, but you can't see nothin' but land and sky.
Oh,
we're lookin' forward to it. No,
sir, we don't know nothin' about it, but we can learn. Well, we're both young, and my young
man's very bright. Yes, sir, he's
very ambitious. Afraid? No, why would we be afraid? Ah, no, we ain't afraid. No, we'll be together, and it'll be
very interesting. No, it won't be
much use bein' a stenographer, but I can cook pretty good. Yes, sir, my mother taught me. Well, I'm glad now. Yes, 'cause I think when men works hard
all day they like to come home and find a girl waitin' for 'em with a nice hot
supper ready. I'm going to do my
best. And I'm going to try and fix
the place up, you know, because I think if I take out some cretonne, and I'm
going to try and get a few pictures, and it'll make the place look a little
more homelike, you know. I'm going
to fix it up . . . like that home I was tellin' you about.
Yes,
sir. Pardon me? Oh, I will; I'll miss my mother
something terrible. I never left
my mother before. I know I will
miss her. I'd take my mother with
me if she'd go, but you see, she won't leave my grandmother. No, sir, no, sir, she won't leave her,
and I couldn't take the two of them.
I don't think it'd be right to take the two because the . . . No, sir,
there's just a little bitty house, and they couldn't sleep outdoors, and I
don't think it's right to take three where they're lookin' for one, you know.
Well,
you see, Judge, there's not a word of truth in what my grandmother says. Well, it's not true because . . . He's
a very fine fellow; that's why it's not true. He's a very fine fellow. He's 23 years old—23, yes, sir. Well, he ain't always had work. He was very unlucky. He never could seem to land a job, and
. . and . . . but there's a lot of fellows ain't had work. No, sir, he don't drink. He does not drink; he . . .
Well, he only drunk some because he was so discouraged. You know how it is, Judge. You must have seen a lot of boys like
that. Oh, they go to look for
work, and they can't get work, and it seems that nobody wants them, and then
they get so discouraged, and then they get drinkin'. Of course they shouldn't, but that's what happens, I know,
sometimes.
Anyhow,
I know he's not going to drink when we get married. He told me. He
told me he was never going to drink once we was married. Well, he'll be workin', you see, and
he'll be happy. It's true, ain't
it, that men don't drink so bad when they're workin' and when they're happy?
Well,
that's not true, either. Because
I'm not that kind of girl. I do not
run around and waste my time and think only of myself. They got every single penny I earned
for the last two years, only just what I had to have to put on myself to keep
myself respectable for my work and to get my meals, my lunch, every day. No, sir, I give my mother everything
every Saturday. Yes, sir, they
know it, too.
Well,
I . . . I do go out sometimes. I .
. . I am very fond of dancing. I .
. . I go out maybe once or twice a week, but that's all. Mostly I'm so tired I come home and go
to bed. No, sir, I ain't had no
holidays. Aw, I never bother with
them holidays; they . . . only them legal ones. Well, I'd rather get extra work. I always was lucky, you see, and I could get extra
work. I'd rather make the money.
No,
sir, I have not.
No,
sir, never.
No,
sir, I do not.
No,
sir.
No,
sir.
No,
sir!
Please,
Judge, I guess you think I'm terrible selfish and ungrateful, and all that kind
of stuff, but I can't seem to explain and make you understand, but, you see,
the trouble is they'll never understand, and you can't make 'em understand, and
I want to get out of this; I want my own life, and I . . . I beg your
pardon.
Wednesday? You want I should come back on
Wednesday . . . yes, sir . . . and bring him? Oh! Oh, yes,
sir, he'd be pleased to come. Oh,
sure, he'll come and . . . yes, my boss will let me off. You want to see the two of us
together. Yes, sir. And to be sure and bring the
letter. Oh, yes, sir, we'll bring
the letter. Then we can talk it
over, and you'll tell us then?
Thank you. Yes, sir, we'll
be here—Wednesday morning at ten o'clock. Thank you.
Come
on, Grandma, come on home. Come
on, Mama. Oh, what's the use of
talkin' now? We got to wait until
Wednesday, anyhow. Come on home.
Ruth Draper, in her own person: Judge.